Michael spotted Darshna at a summer house party and did... absolutely nothing. Lucky for them, fast forward four months to a NYE house party (that neither of them planned to attend), their paths crossed again and they spent hours talking away.
Like a true gentleman, he walked her to the station. And like a true millennial, he didn't ask for her number but slid into her Instagram DMs the next day.
The First Date
Michael chose the elegant Bluebird Chelsea for their first date, clearly pulling out all the stops! Still recovering from the flu, Darshna kept disappearing to the ladies' room—apparently blowing your nose on a first date isn't very romantic. After the 10th time, Michael, with his signature dry humor, told her she may as well take her bag with her if she was planning to make a run for it. That has since changed and now he holds the tissue box for her ❤️
How he proposed
Everytime they went on holiday, everyone was convinced this would be the one where they got engaged. So Michael planned a completely secret getaway, not even their families knew.
…But since Darshna is usually the one who plans their trips, she had a sneaking suspicion something was up - especially when Michael mentioned they were going to Lake Como.
One sunny afternoon, they rented a motorboat, packed a bottle of bubbles and lunch, and set off across the sparkling lake. Knowing how much Darshna loves her photos, Michael suggested she head to the front of the boat for some pictures (and of course, they turned out amazing). Whilst she was sitting there, hair swishing in the breeze, he got down on one knee behind her…
What followed was lots of happy video calls, champagne and an impromptu photoshoot back at their apartment high in the mountains - overlooking the beautiful Lake Como where they got engaged.
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The closest station is Potters Bar, however, there is no public transport from here to the venue, please book a taxi/uber ahead of time. We recommend driving to the venue, there is a car park with plenty of parking spaces available.
Accommodations
The farewell will be at 7pm so you may not need accommodations. If you would like to stay overnight, here are some nearby hotel options:
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Q & A
What is the RSVP deadline?
Please RSVP by 1st February 2026
What time should I arrive?
Coming soon! We are confirming the auspicious time to get married with our Maharaj. The farewell will be around 7pm
Can I bring a plus-one?
We have tried to include everyone we would love to celebrate with and unfortunately we can't accommodate plus-ones
Are children welcome?
Yes children are welcome! We kindly ask that if they become a bit noisy during the ceremony, you step outside so everyone can hear and enjoy the moment. There's also a play part on the premises that can be used throughout the day
What if I have dietary restrictions?
Please let us know about any dietary requirements when you RSVP, and we'll make sure you're well taken care of!
What is the dress code?
Traditional Indian attire is preferred and encouraged! Think saris, lehengas, or salwar kameez for women, and kurtas or sherwanis for men. Bright colours are welcome and celebrated (just not red)
For any clothing-related questions or if you just want a second opinion, please text Darshna
How long will the ceremony be?
Our ceremony will last approximately 1 hour with various rituals and traditions. There will be explanations provided for those unfamiliar with the customs
What if I don't understand the rituals?
Don't worry! The Maharaj will be explaining the significance of different rituals throughout the ceremony so everyone can appreciate the beautiful traditions.
Will there be vegetarian food?
Yes! The entire menu will be vegetarian, following traditional Indian wedding customs. There will be a wide variety of delicious dishes to enjoy.
Can I take pictures during the wedding?
We kindly request an unplugged ceremony so please keep phones and cameras tucked away. We will have a professional photographer and videographer throughout the day. You are more than welcome to take your own photos and videos before and after the ceremony. For privacy reasons, some children cannot be shared online. Please refrain from posting any photos of children on social media unless you have parental consent.
Where should I stay?
The farewell will be at 7pm so you may not need accommodations. If you would like to stay overnight, there are plenty of hotel options listed in our Accommodations section above
Will there be parking available?
Yes, there is plenty of free parking available at Oshwal Centre. There are no electric car charging points unfortunately
Do I need to book a taxi?
Yes, a taxi/uber should be pre-booked. A list of local taxis can be found on Travel
Is the venue wheelchair accessible?
Yes, Oshwal Centre is fully wheelchair accessible with ramps and accessible facilities.
Whom should I contact with questions?
If you have any questions that haven't been answered here, please call/text Darshna or Michael or email us at shahrosewedding@gmail.com
